How to separate mediation issues from arbitration issues?
Q. My divorce agreement says the ex and I must "mediate" if there's a dispute. Yes, there are several disputes. But my ex keeps saying we need "arbitration". There are some issues for which I'd like mediation and keep some decision power, and some issues I'd agree for an arbitrator to decide for us. HOW do I make sure the issues stay separated during mediation/arbitration?
Asked by Vindaloo99 - Tue Oct 6 21:27:24 2009 - - 4 Answers - 0 Comments

A. mediate... arbitration... when you get right down to it... they are basically the same.
Answered by Cyclist 2300 - Tue Oct 6 21:53:33 2009

What are the negative impacts of adult interference for peer mediation?
Q. I am doing an assignment for a class about peer mediation. I am having a hard time trying to answer the question. It asks, "What are the negative impact of adult interference in peer mediation?" So far I have answered: -teacher interrupts the conversations between the mediators and students who are involved with the problem -teacher may not let the students solve their own problem. Does anyone else have any ideas that could help me? Thanks
Asked by speedybug2001 - Sun Apr 12 16:50:16 2009 - - 3 Answers - 0 Comments

A. One thing is that a student might not be comfortable sharing information with a teacher, but is with a fellow classmate or friend. If he or she doesn't open up completely, he or she may not be able to be helped as much. Also, the teacher may think lower of the student or treat him or her differently after learning about a situation. It is not fair for a student to be treated badly because of a problem in his or her life. Finally, a student may have a problem with that teacher or another teacher, and would not want the teacher to know for fear of the teacher finding out. - Anonymous
Answered by Anonymous - Sun Apr 12 17:00:38 2009

Should mediation be mandatory for couples getting a divorce if they have kids?
Q. Just answer this question yes or no please.It's for a project i have to do a survey. Should mediation be mandatory for couples getting a divorce if they have kids? In mediation a neutral third person talks to the couple to help them come to an agreement over whatever disagreements they are having.
Asked by myfriendsforcedme - Sat May 8 18:47:15 2010 - - 8 Answers - 0 Comments

What is the best mediation for generalized anxiety disorder?
Q. I have been taking zoloft and klonopin for anxiety for a while and I think it is no longer helping enough. I am thinking of switching to a different ssri and ativan (instead of klonopin). Any suggestions on what the best med is for generalized anxiety disorder. Thanks!
Asked by Aimela - Thu Jul 10 16:21:22 2008 - - 5 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Try smoking pot. MUCH less dangerous than the drugs you are taking now.
Answered by Hittman 3 - Thu Jul 10 16:37:18 2008

How should I dress for a legal mediation?
Q. I will be participating in a legal mediation with an injured family member. The plaintiffs, a private transport company, and another injured plaintiff will be meeting to mediate a settlement. Our attorney has described the community as "conservative" both in lifestyles and judgements. Between you and I, we'd prefer not to go to court. Jacket and tie? Or, suit and tie?
Asked by R C - Mon Jan 26 13:43:10 2009 - - 4 Answers - 0 Comments

A. I would run with "business casual". Appear well dressed and respectful, but no need to go the suit and tie point. After all you are not the attorney.
Answered by Susie D - Mon Jan 26 13:47:39 2009

What can I do to prepare for mediation process in a divorce case?
Q. I'm new to this. Going through a divorce. My lawer said I will go through mediation hearing where a counselor tries to work something out between me and my wife. No lawyers allowed to be participate. What is the process like and is it something you can prepare for it?
Asked by Vincent - Sat May 15 02:40:01 2010 - - 5 Answers - 0 Comments

A. You should compare a mediator to an investment. Realize that by agreeing on terms, you can even file an uncontested divorce which equals out to even greater savings, and even the ability to wrap up your divorce much faster than if you had numerous court dates and motions slowing everything down.
Answered by murrayskeeter - Tue May 18 10:33:41 2010

What will I want to say at mediation to be successful for me?
Q. I am going through a divorce and must go to mediation with the soon to be ex husband. Dont really know what to expect!
Asked by Concerned - Mon Dec 8 14:46:06 2008 - - 3 Answers - 0 Comments

A. I've been through this. Mainly focus on your child/ren. Tell them your only concern is the children. Do NOT make him look like a bad guy in front of the mediator. Maintain your cool, even if your ex lies about you.
Answered by Short_and_Sweet - Mon Dec 8 15:14:33 2008

What is your opinion of treating children who have trouble focusing in school with mediation?
Q. What is your opinion of treating children who have trouble focusing in school with mediation? What are some issues to consider when treating a child with ADHD? What are some treatment options?
Asked by Lisa Laaouina - Fri Jan 8 19:34:51 2010 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

A. real wide subject...sometimes it just takes that one person to help them...there are times I think too many fingers in the pot are wrong...it takes a real person not one looking for a paycheck ...too many do gooders no real help...options. A strong person that they trust not a bunch of rules from a ton from different people
Answered by wannaplaytoo2001 - Fri Jan 8 20:21:26 2010

What is hindu mediation like, and is it very different from Buddhist meditation?
Q. Buddhist meditation is based on anatta (no-self, that there's no such thing as a real 'you', which rules out the possibility of having a soul), anicca (nothing is permanent, which rules out the existence of an eternal god), and dhukkha (nothing is permanently satisfactory, except nirvana). Is this in conflict with hinduism? What do hindus meditate on?
Asked by Sisyphus - Thu Nov 20 22:02:27 2008 - - 4 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Bg 8.8 P Attaining the Supreme In this verse Lord Krsna stresses the importance of remembering Him. One's memory of Krsna is revived by chanting the maha-mantra, Hare Krsna. By this practice of chanting and hearing the sound vibration of the Supreme Lord, one's ear, tongue and mind are engaged. This mystic meditation is very easy to practice, and it helps one attain the Supreme Lord. SB 3.15.25 P Description of the Kingdom of God The actual fact is that the Lord is nondifferent from His name. The highest realization of spiritual value is to chant the holy name of God, as prescribed for the age--Hare Krsna, Hare Krsna, Krsna Krsna, Hare Hare. Hare Rama, Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare Hare. SB 4.8.57 P Dhruva Maharaja Leaves Home for… [cont.]
Answered by Prabhupadanuga - Fri Nov 21 16:25:14 2008

Is there a proven mediation to improve cirrhosis of the liver?
Q. Doctors have told me cirrhosis of the liver is irreversible so deal with the fact this condition will certainly shorten my life. I understand that but I have read that the liver CAN rejuvenate itself to some degree under certain circumstances if you obstain from the harmful elements which are under your control, alcohol, etc. Is there anything I can "take" or "do " to maintain or improve the condition of my liver besides eat right and take care of my body, or am I too late? I' 60.
Asked by johnnybgood - Mon Oct 15 17:37:22 2007 - - 4 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Try a product called liv 52, its the top product for maintaning a healthy liver also carbohydratess help also..
Answered by vizco_inc - Mon Oct 15 17:48:34 2007

what is mediation in a charge filed with the eeoc?
Q. should i agree to mediation or not? what does it mean to have my charge mediated?
Asked by brad r - Fri Feb 8 17:21:54 2008 - - 3 Answers - 0 Comments

A. A mediator is an independent person who does not have an interest in the outcome, and does not represent either party. They listen to both sides, and assists you both by attempting to reach an agreement. Mediation is not binding, and does not prevent you from continuing with your complaint.
Answered by trooper3316 - Fri Feb 8 17:28:55 2008

How can I start a Peer Mediation Program for my school?
Q. I've been researching for this... Can you give me suggestions on where to start... And where I can get help for training Mediators? Should I involve our guidance counselors?
Asked by gelli_craze - Sun Apr 6 07:55:53 2008 - - 2 Answers - 0 Comments

A. I know it sounds like a good idea in theory, but it doesn't work well in practice. I remember the 'peer mediation' kids at my school - the only ones who got involved were the ones who wanted to be able to have power over kids they didn't like, and gossiped so much that everyone knew about every issue within hours. After a week, no one ever went to them again.
Answered by eri - Sun Apr 6 08:10:55 2008

What happens if you can't make it to custody mediation and court date?
Q. We filed for a custody modification for my step daughter. We have really good reasons for asking. After we got a date for mediation and a court date, my husband was informed that he has a mandatory 6 week training at work and will not be able to attend on those dates. His ex is extremely unreasonable and will not agree to a continuance. What are his options? The mediation and court hearing are through Los Angeles Superior Court.
Asked by mandilu - Wed Jul 28 01:43:10 2010 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

Do you know a very effective mediation technique?
Q. I meditate. But till now after 4 years I have not been very sucessful. I know some techniques. But all seem ineffctive. Can any body enlighen me?
Asked by daffodil - Fri May 26 00:27:35 2006 - - 5 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Try a meditation CD. Dr. Andrew Weil has one out. I used it to meditate on when I took a stress management course. He talks you through, with a stream-of-consciousness kind of commentary. It is easy to follow, and helps get your mind of other things.
Answered by monica_dietz@sbcglobal.net - Fri May 26 02:12:03 2006

How long did it take to get trial modification Documents after foreclosure mediation? Bank of america?
Q. Just completed foreclosure mediation with BoA. Was granted a trial Modification for three months. They are supposed to be sending a packet with all the documents and instructions. Since we are in foreclosure because of their dishonesty on a previous modification I am worried sick about not get the documents. Can anyone tell me how long it took to recieve your docs from BoA after mediation? Thanks
Asked by jettyspagetti - Sat May 15 13:01:36 2010 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

A. you need to call and follow up with them at least 2x a week. It could take anywhere 1month to 6 months until they actually give you the trial modification documents. What happened to the previous modification-they had a legal binding agreement may warrant an attorney. www.loansafe.org-- is a free online community that is great for this type of thing-check it out.
Answered by bryan l - Sun May 16 12:40:21 2010

How many times can an attourney legally postpone court?
Q. I have an attorney that has postponed 2 mediations, and now our courtdate, (she had known this date for 2 and 1/2 weeks mind you) She says she has 2 other things going on. I believe it is because the other party is failing to make payments to her. She just called to postpone this morning. My attorney called to object, but havent heard anything back yet. Sorry that isn't my attorney that is postponing court and mediation, its the other guys.
Asked by spoilledbraat - Tue Feb 12 13:05:01 2008 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Depending on what state and what kind of Action(including but not limited to, Criminal, Family, Civil., etc.) If it is a Criminal Action both the State and Private Attorney are allowed up to 3 Continuances a piece. Seeing as you mentioned Mediation I take it that the action is either Family, Domestic, or Civil, in that case a Lawyer cannot postpone due to non-payment. There must be another reason such as the opposing party failing to disclose demanded information or is just simply not ready to proceed. In some counties the Clerk of Court Website gives access to public records, you can try to look the case up and take a look at the Register of Actions to see what paperwork has been filed and also get a look at what has not, as well as… [cont.]
Answered by Matthew M - Tue Feb 12 13:24:43 2008

what is the difference between arbitration and mediation?
Q. Is is only that one can make decisions while the other can only suggest or help? Don't want to be dense, but I am a little confused.
Asked by Olivier H - Mon May 7 19:17:02 2007 - - 3 Answers - 1 Comments

A. Both mediation and arbitration fall under alternatives to dispute resolution. However, there is a difference between the two. Mediation involves the parties meeting with a neutral person who attempts to help the parties resolve the matter. A mediator works as a "neutral party" to help facilitate a settlement without making a decision. In Arbitration, a neutral party would hear from both parties and issue a decision that would be binding on both parties. Both parties are "stuck" with the decision. Arbitrators do not attempt to facilitate a resolution.
Answered by RedSoxFan - Mon May 7 19:22:33 2007

What is the efficacy of mediation in reducing stress?
Q. One of my friends is taking a stress and health class and ask me if i knew the answer to the question by chance. unfortunately for her , I didn't. But I would like to know!
Asked by crlnmaddox - Mon Aug 6 20:59:10 2007 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

A. For some people mediation works great, for some it does not. Like everything else in life.
Answered by Josephine - Wed Aug 8 02:34:58 2007

Why does the defense want to adjourn mediation process in lawsuit?
Q. We thought it was over and yet the defense lawyers now want to adjourn the mediation hearing that tries to award a settlement. They say they are not ready...our lawyer wants to adjourn and seems pleased that they want another 60 days. What do you think?
Asked by MaxBasil - Wed Jan 30 23:23:31 2008 - - 2 Answers - 0 Comments

A. I would ask your lawyer specifically: 1. Why he feels it's a good idea to give the defense more time? 2. How will this delay serve your interests? Normally delay serves the defendant. I am not a lawyer. Only licensed lawyers can give legal advise.
Answered by Citizen1984 - Wed Jan 30 23:37:40 2008

Can an IEP mediation agreement be set aside if only one parent signs it and the other disagrees with it?
Q. My son has Aspergers. Both parents disagreed with the School District (PA) but only one parent went to mediation. An agreement was signed, but the other parent does not agree with the mediation agreement and wants to go to due process. Is this legal, since they were not involved in the mediation?
Asked by christie_devine - Fri Jun 4 01:16:16 2010 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

A. That, the parents would first have to work out amongst themselves as a family and improve communications. Because 'a representative of the family' had worked issues out with the school in a mediation process it is now legally presumed that issues were worked out between 'the family' and 'the school' during a mediation process. The school does not double check to see if all members of the family agreed to this document. Only one representative of the family minimum (or if at least 18, the student themselves) has to attend the IEP process and sign off on the documents for mediation to legally be considered successful. Now another IEP can be called to modify that process and create another document, but this current document which… [cont.]
Answered by pioneer_grrrl1979 - Fri Jun 4 16:02:26 2010